We've been talking a lot about prostate massage and the endless orgasm lately. I've been surprised by the number of straight guys who want in on the P-Spot massage action. And why not?!

Good sex is good sex!

We posted a blog last week entitled Working the Endless “O”: Male G-Spot Massage and received great feedback. (We also featured prostate massaging toys in our newsletter today—check it out for big savings.)

We practice (and practice and practice) what we preach. So last night I practiced!

I used the P-Spot Massager. At times it was so intense I couldn’t take it anymore. The feelings are really and truly amazing.

Foreplay is well worth considering at this point. Take the time to massage the inside of the thighs, up and down the perineum and around the asshole. Warm things up.

There are many ways to tease your prostate. You can use your finger, a toy like I did, a dildo or the penis (someone else’s unless you are very, very lucky!) Make sure you generously lubricate your ass with a water-based lube. If you are using a finger, insert it up to the second knuckle or so. Crook your finger slightly as if scratching an itch and press towards the base of the penis. Pet the prostate with your finger pulling it outwards. Repeat.

You can use a strap-on dildo to stimulate the prostate in much the same way. Again, make sure you thoroughly lube up first. Insert your dildo or toy a few inches up the ass. Move it in and out exerting pressure on the outstroke to avoid jabbing in a way that might cause pain. If you are using a realistic dildo with a head and corona the ridge can provide additional stimulation.

If your toy—like the P-Spot Massager I was using last night—has a curve, make sure it is pointed so the curved side cradles and reaches around the prostate. This should mimic what you would do with your finger. If you are lying on your back, the curve should be pointing upwards. If you are on hands and knees—doggy style—the curve should be headed down.

If you are being fucked by a flesh-and-blood dick, your prostate will be stimulated as well. With each thrust of the dick, the prostate will be rubbed. To heighten the experience, aim towards the prostate and put pressure there. Concentrate on thrusting in short, rapid movements and caress the prostate to provide more stimulation.  If you are doing the fucking, wearing a cock ring will improve performance. You will be thicker, harder and more sensitive.


Warm Flesh on Flesh--A Gentle & Insistent Prostate Stimulator
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Increase the pleasure by grabbing his penis by the base and holding it firmly. With one hand stoke the perineum (also known as the ‘taint’) immediately below his balls. Press firmly—this will provide a Yin to the Yang of the prostate massage inside his asshole. If he gets close to an external orgasm, grasp the end of his penis (below the corona) firmly with your thumb and pointer finger to keep him from cumming. (You want to delay it as long as possible.) Spread the power of the orgasm by massaging firmly up his abdomen and away from the genitals. Another way to do this is to press firmly on the perineum with your heel (obviously this can only be done when massaging prostate with a finger or a toy). This is a Tantric technique that is very powerful. 

As your prostate is being stimulated you may feel as though you have to go to the bathroom. This is a pretty typical response. Depending on the size of your toy, finger or the dick that is up your ass, you may feel as though you have to take a dump. For some men this is initially very uncomfortable. This is not unusual. However, if you or your partner feels significant pain or discomfort stop. In addition, if you have a disease of the prostate, acute prostatitis or inflammation of any kind, rubbing the prostate may cause the infection to spread to other areas of your body.

Prostate stimulation is incredible. It enhances the intensity of the orgasms and creates a sensation of the endless “O”. You can even climax from just prostate stimulation without any phallic contact at all! Remember though that the prostate gland takes time to get fully engorged. The degree of intensity will vary depending on the duration of prostate massage. It pays to delay cumming as long as possible to build up the intensity.

Oh, and of course you will want to make sure you are wearing your gear from gear essentials. A cock ring will keep your dick thicker. Ball weights will improve the power of your orgasm when you finally come. These are all enhancements to better sex—take advantage of all that life offers.

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(Photo re-blogged from Tumblr.)

Written by Jay — February 20, 2014

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