We love your comments! One of the best parts about my role is getting feedback from the folks who are wearing our gear. The excitement and enthusiasm are contagious! Today we received an e-mail from a customer who was having so much fun with his new gear--he can't believe the difference it is making in his sex life. It's over-the-top HOT!
One of our goals is to provide an open forum for men and women looking for ways to improve their sex lives. All too often we have been raised in shame or embarrassment. We settle for bad information and bad sex. To make matters worse, a lot of us a reluctant to discuss our desires and fantasies with our partner.
You don't have to settle. Sex should be amazing, fun and incredibly satisfying--for you and your partner.
One of the amazing discoveries for me was a simple 8 ounce (1/2" bandwidth) ball weight. I eyed it suspiciously. This solid stainless steel donut was a chunk of metal that screwed together. This didn't look like a sex enhancement--it looked like a device of torture! I'm all about sweetness and light--I leave the torture to the experts!
I carefully put the ball stretcher on and tightened it down. Admittedly I was less than graceful my first time out--it took me a bit of time to secure it. But then...
My dick POPPED to life! My head may have been cautious but my dick jumped right in! I love the look and I loved the feel. I discovered that I had been subconsciously been tugging and twisting my balls while jacking off and during sex for a long time. I love the feeling of the tug. Now the ball weight does that for me--and not JUST during sex--ALL DAY LONG! It gave me an erotic thrill as I walked during my day. I gain a hyper-awareness of the power of my manhood! It sounds very Robert Bly and hokey--but it really did put some 'cocky' into my walk!
Sex was even better--beyond the tug, twist and pull I discovered that the ball weight intensifies my orgasm. Because my ball sac cannot retract up into my body cavity prior to cumming it delays the process and makes it even more powerful!
Another customer comment: Steve from Arizona wrote on www.gearessentials.com: "Jay is there any talk of a 40oz? Bigger is better, I thought the 24oz was awesome (and it is) but the 32oz is mind blowing. I definitely had to work up to the 32oz, it wasn't a size I could wear day one. I couldn't really see the smaller weights stretching my ball sack, but the 32oz there is a definite stretch that is noticeable when I take it off. Nothing like a big sloppy ball sack:) Just as the 24oz, the orgasms are mind blowing. I have to be careful during love-making as the bigger weights can be a little too aggressive on my woman. This can be easily avoided by changing up the position so the weight isn't smacking a tail bone or other delicate parts (sensitivity is important when playing with heavy weights;). If you haven't discovered these weights, you owe it to yourself straight or gay, you will thank yourself for it. Thanks Jay for such an awesome product, I HIGHLY recommend!
"Ps. I have hundreds if not thousands of dollars in cock devices of various types, and the Ball Weights without a doubt are my favorite with the Cock Ring a close second."
I let Steve know that there isn't any talk of a 40 ounce ball stretcher at this time (that would be a 2 1/2" bandwidth)--our customers seem to have good luck stacking. Because gear essentials' weights are squared, there is less pinching than with rounded weights. Another tip for avoiding pinching is to make sure that you have enough bandwidth on to keep your ball sac stretched tautly (then there is no extra skin to get pinched).
Did I mention that ball weights, when worn regularly, can also stretch out your ball sac? If you are looking for big bull bollocks this is your ticket.
One other feature that comes in handy is the Allen screw closure. The likelihood of these falling off is minimized by the secure Allen screw keeping the two halves together. (Although it has been known to happen when too much lube is mixed with a very hot, sweaty day!) I road-tested a magnetic ball weight that kept popping off my nads. I didn't enjoy it much when it landed on my foot (instant boner-kill).
Bottom line? Sex (solo or with a partner) is so much intensely better with a ball weight on. It’s like there is another hand in play and the orgasm is even more incredible. It’s your choice—maintain mundane sex or go for over-the-top HOT!
gear essentials…Sex is Better here! ENJOY!
WHERE TO FIND IT: 24 Oz. Ball Weight: http://gearessentials.com/collections/ball-weights/products/ball-weight-24oz
(Photo submitted by customer. This is not a picture of Steve.)