Prostate Massage is a growing passion around here! Judging by the amount of e-mail we are receiving, a great many of you (straight, bi and gay) are just starting to dabble with prostate massage or perfecting technique.
I received an e-mail earlier this week from one of our GearFans. He wrote: ‘Position and relaxation (focus on deep breathing) seem to be key. Some guys insist on "hands off," others don't. Nipple play can be very helpful too. If you have not explored this side of your masculinity I'd encourage you to do so.’ He also offered to coach me in my own journey of prostate exploration.
My first reaction to his offer was, "No, I don't need coaching!" But then I changed my mind.
Anal Shame?
We can all use coaching or mentoring, right? How lucky am I that someone with more experience is willing to show me the ropes? Part of this realization that I could use some coaching was my reaction to a recent episode of Looking on HBO. This show has been getting more than its fair share of flak from critics but I have found it to be insightful. The episode that aired on February 19, 2014 was primarily about 'anal shame'. As I wrote to my new coach: "In one of those flashes that my subconscious occasionally zaps me with I had a breakthrough: I am recovering from anal shame!"
And I know that I am not alone.
It feels good to have my prostate massaged. The reactions that vibrate through my body are mind-blowing! And yet the idea of having something "up the butt" brings out a negative reaction in me. Why? Because of our puritanical societies limited view on what is 'appropriate sexual behavior'? I freakin' sell ball weights--haven't I moved beyond this? Apparently not!
I am also a Virgo Clean-freak! (You do realize what comes out of there!) Then I remind myself that there are easy ways to clean up before the play begins.
So having come so far on my journey from fundamentalism to freedom in my sexuality I realized that I have not yet arrived. And this is okay--discovery is one of the delicious by-products of this exciting and rewarding journey.
My coach responded to my e-mail by saying: "Glad you are doing prostate massage. Prostate Massage can take guys on a breathtaking journey. It does take some patience and work on technique, some guys (like me) really benefit from a little coaching."
To quote Margo Channing (All About Eve):"Fasten your seatbelts, it's going to be a bumpy night!"
A View to the Prostate: Seeing Through a Glass Dildo!
We have become fans of glass dildos. When I first heard that a dildo was made of glass I freaked: "Glass is fragile and I'm not sticking THAT up my ass!"
But then I learned that they are non-porous and basically Pyrex. (And if it's tough enough for your oven....)
I held it in my hand and there is a solidity that is comforting to this elegantly hand-crafted dildo. It will leave you breathless and is designed to play hard.
Hot or Cold
One thing we love about this dildo is that you can heat it up or cool it down--this is an amazing addition to your prostate play kit! The hypoallergenic glass is nonporous and body safe, and when cared for properly, is designed to last a lifetime. Run the wand under warm water or place it in the microwave to heat things up. Chill it under cold water or put it in the freezer for a cool sensation. It then gently warms to body temperature. Due to its smooth surface it is easy to insert with minimal lubrication. Does it get any more fun than this?
Hot or Cold--Safe for Play in the Shower, Tub or Pool: A Gentle Caress with the Icicles No. 14 Dildo
We get a kick out of human nature because amazing things can happen when people get naked and get together (and sometimes you don’t even need to be naked!) Whether you are gay or straight—touch, stroking, kissing, nibbling, hugging and poking feels amazing! Our goal is to enhance that experience and pleasure.
Above (as well as below) is a picture of three hot guys doing what comes naturally—exploring each other with hands and mouths. One hung stud is stroking his lover’s ass with the Icicles No. 14 glass dildo—the gentle curve helps you probe and rub the prostate—the male “G-spot”. (Anyone who has had a finger play, poke and wriggle up there knows that this leads to mind-blowing sex and a whole-body orgasm.)
There is other sex-enhancing gear here as well: the beautiful package beneath the crack that is about to be rubbed by the Icicle (the dick about to be sucked) is cloaked in medical-grade plastic. He is wearing stacked cockrings comprised of the medical-grade Grip and SurgeBLACK. In addition, he has the SurgeBLACK glans ring under the head of his huge uncut dick. All of these rings are keeping the blood in his pumped up prick so he is thicker and longer. He is also much more sensitized to the erotic high that will be washing over him when that hot and hungry mouth reaches its destination!
His balls are wrapped in the new PISTON ball weight—at 8 ounces it is gear essentials’ lightest ball stretcher—and therefore easiest for the ball weight virgin to wear. Its ball tugging and twisting leaves a hand free to concentrate elsewhere!
The man doing the probing is wearing stacked ball weights--an 8 ounce PISTON and an 8 ounce brushed stainless ball stretcher. He is also wearing a Strut penis ring to keep his cock thicker and fuller. Bobbing on the end of that substantial schlong is a Titan .4 glans ring--the weight of which really gets noticed resulting in what many guys have referred to as a 'mini hand-job in my pants'. It's all about better sex!
Hot or Cold: Grope, Suck & Probe with the Icicles No . 14
A friend confessed to me the other day that she thinks penises are ugly. I promised not to tell her partner but I did point out that one (of the many) amazing things about a penis is that it talks (non-verbally of course) even when the man attached is mute. The cock attached to the bottom man is non-verbally screaming “I am HORNY!”
For many guys, having their prostate massaged results in a huge boner. (I'll admit, coming from a place of 'recovering' anal shame that at this point my dick shrivels up and tries to hide. I am hoping that his eventually changes.) There is nothing so amazing as a dick standing up hard and erect--this is how Mother Nature designed us!
The furry man on the bottom is hard due to his excitement and Half Screw anodized cock ring and Quarter Screw glans ring (and his own horniness, of course!) His cock ring keeps the blood flow restricted in his penis so he is thicker, harder, longer and more sensitive. If you are having trouble re-creating an erection that is as hard as it was when you were 18, a cockring will help you recapture it!
He is focused on that pendulous prong and balls bobbing overhead. Thick and full—it’s begging to be gulped.
A hand reaches out to pull those balls forward. They are pulled low by the PISTON 8 ounce ball weight. Whether he is stroked, poked, kissed, nibbled or licked he will writhe with the pleasure being inflicted on his stretched scrotum. When he does cum, it will be more intense and last longer because his ball weight locks his balls from retracting immediately before orgasm.
Probing, groping and sucking can get better—with the right gear from gear essentials! Increase your size, increase your sensitivity, increase your pleasure!
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Steven Maish-Ramirez
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