Adorning Dick


I have found myself wondering if we have a primordial drive to adorn our bodies?  That might explain cock rings, piercings, glans rings and ball weights. But they don't just look hot, they feel amazing! What desire or urge prompted man to start decorating his dick?

I have been e-mailing with a GearFan who told me that at the ripe old age of 7 he was tying things around his cock and balls. (And I thought I was precocious!) As a horny teen I was using shoe laces, the drawstrings from old swimming trunks and a cloth belt to wrap around my cock and balls. I loved the way it felt as my prick became engorged. All my nerve endings would tingle and it would twitch with pent-up erotic excitement as I stroked. I still get hard thinking about it.


Tie 'Em Up:  Rope Will Do (But Be Prepared for Chafing!)



A few years later I discovered that you could actually buy cock rings that would mirror this experience. I became a HUGE fan and have worn a cock ring 24/7 ever since. 

We often get questions about how long you can wear a cockring--a couple of tips: 

  • I wear a flexible Nitrile cock ring 24 hours a day.  It stretches enough to prevent any damage that might occur during nocturnal hard-ons so it eases the concern of penile damage.
A Nitrile Cock Ring is Flexible and Easy to Wear All-Day
  • Every morning I put on a metal penis ring {and sometimes more than one!}  I wear this in addition to my Nitrile C ring. I wear a size that is comfortable enough to wear even with those occasional daytime hard-ons (that I cannot take care of!) 
  • For sex I wear one size smaller.  This pumps my dick up even more because the restriction of blood flow is greater. 
Tighter = Bigger Dick & Better Sex:  The Titan .6 by gear essentials in Action!


  • If my dick is already semi-chubbed and I'm going to have sex, I will put on a leather snap cock ring on the tightest possible setting. I don't like it as much as a rigid metal penis ring but it's better than not having one at all.


In a Pinch & already Chubbed?  Snap on a Leather C Ring



A few years ago I noticed guys wearing hunks of metal around their balls. I started with a leather parachute ball stretcher--it was a lower investment and I wanted to see if I would like it. 


Leather Snap Parachute


It is fun--and you can attach all sorts of things to it (I've seen boots, 5 lb. weights from your barbell set and even a concrete cinder block--that was spotted at International Mr. Leather!) The parachute is easy to use but I found it clunky to have something dangling between my knees (unless kilted). For play it works fine but I found it irritating (I didn't want to be 'anchored' at home--I wanted something that I could wear throughout my day).


A Stretching Combination:  Parachute AND a 16 Oz. Ball Stretcher by gear essentials


I've also found that a parachute can come in handy when you are trying to stretch to the next size metal ball stretcher.  A lot of guys have a ball sac that is high and tight.  Therefore they can barely squeeze the 8 ounce (1/2-inch bandwidth) ball weight on.  If your goal is to have a lower hanging sac it will take more time with just an 8 ounce hanging on.  Add the leather parachute and more weight and you will see it drop more quickly.

Then I tried on a split ring ball weight...


Adorning Dick:  Popping a Major Boner in the 1-inch Bandwidth Ball Weight


I was just telling an old friend yesterday that there was a time when I thought guys who wore chunks of metal around their balls were just wrong. Then I tried my first ball weight. My dick jumped to attention and I’ve never been the same. I popped the biggest boner I had seen in years!  (Obviously my dick loved it!) 

Since that day I wear an 8 ounce ball weight most of the time (I put it on after my shower and take it off before I go to bed; I can wear it all night but I get too horned up). It is a great weight for every day/all day wear--it's light enough that I don't get fatigued and heavy enough that I get the pleasure of the pull, tug and twist. The sensations are amazing. I can now easily wear a 24 ounce (1.5" bandwidth) and I love that feeling as well. 


Adorning Dick:  Stack 'em Up! 16 Oz. Ball Weight & Omega C Ring


If one is good, aren't two better? 

It's all good--the man pictured above is stacking--meaning he is wearing more than one ring on his balls. The way to do this is to first pull your balls (one at a time) through your cock ring. This is the toughest piece to get on. Some guys are able to wear a cock ring as a ball weight but for most men, one ball hangs lower than the other. The higher ball tends to 'pop' back up through the ring (a very weird sensation by the way) and the lower ball soon follows. When that happens everything comes crashing down. Therefore most of us need something more solid beneath the cockring on the balls to keep everything on.

Put the cock ring on first (in this case he is wearing an Omega, gear essentials' heaviest ring). Then put on a Nitrile cock ring. I learned this trick from another customer who recently e-mailed to tell me that he was having great success wearing a Nitrile or Silicone cock ring between his stacked ball weights. The rings act as ‘bumpers’ to avoid any pinching and they help keep everything in place. 

Once you have the two rings in place, slide your ball weight into place and secure it.  The guy pictured above has 27 ounces (just 5 ounces shy of 2 lbs.) hanging off his nads. Now that's intense!



So why do guys put their gentle, soft scrotums through this kind of 'torture'?! 

  • BIGGER NADS:   A lot of guys want a bigger ball sac. By regularly wearing a ball weight, you will stretch out your ball sac so you can strut it with pride! When your nads stretch enough to go to the next size, you can slip the 8 ounce (1/2” bandwidth) size on between your existing ball weight(s) and your shaft. It’s a great way to add weight which then adds length to your sac.
  • INTENSE PLEASURE ALL DAY LONG!  Ball weights give an amazing twist and tug resulting in even more intense sexual pleasure. (I love the feeling of a ball stretcher—even as light as 8 ounces. It intensifies the experience and orgasm for me to the point that I don’t want to have sex without it.)
  • MORE INTENSE ORGASM:  If you are looking for more mind-blowing sex this is the most important reason: ball weights prevent your balls from retracting before you cum so that when you do, the weight causes cumming to be even more intense. We’ve heard from many customers saying that they experience MORE cum AND shoot farther because of their ball weights.
  • TOY WITH ME!  The ball stretchers ‘play’ with your balls—leaving hands free to focus on other areas!
  • PLEASURE YOUR PARTNER:  As a bonus, the ball stretcher bounces off your partner during intercourse. You may not think you want to be repeatedly ‘tapped’ by 4 1/2 lbs. of solid metal but it provides repeated physical contact with your partner. Both of you feel each thrust punctuated with each swing of your balls. The ‘taint’ is a highly erogenous zone—in Tantric practice, pressure is put here to disperse sexual energy throughout the body—instead of just focusing it around the genitals. Several of our customers say they won’t have intercourse without at least ball weight on anymore.


We should add that the solid stainless steel construction is safe for sensitive skin.

Hey, there is nothing wrong with being vanilla--as long as the sexual needs of you and your partner are being met. But wouldn't it be great to exceed expectations and experience mind-blowing sex? Go ahead, adorn your dick. And experience better sex than you ever imagined possible!

gear essentials…Sex is Better here! ENJOY!




(Pictures submitted by customers.)





Beautiful Cock Jewellery that seems to stimulate and arouse every size of cock imaginable. What a turn on for a woman to be able to be a part of that kind of pleasurable erection. Great job and kudos to your company.



Hey, Just Me, when you wear more than one cock ring or ball weight, a great way to avoid any pinching (if you have excess skin) is to wear a Nitrile ring between the two metal ones.

When wearing ball weights (as pictured above), put your Omega C ring on your balls first. Snug that up as closet to the base of your dick as possible (to leave as much ball ‘drop’ as possible). The put a Nitrile cock ring on. Again, snug that up next to the Omega. Then put your ball weight on. The ball weight has a smaller diameter so it is more likely to keep everything from sliding off.

In the case of wearing cock rings, just do the same thing—metal ring, then Nitrile, then another metal ring (or more—depending on how big your dick is). Last summer we got up to three cockrings on one very well-hung model! Personally, I wear a Nitrile 24/7 and put my metal ring(s) on in the shower every morning. We don’t recommend sleeping in a metal ring (although one customer e-mailed me to tell me he does; he just wakes up and whacks when he gets a nocturnal boner—I value my sleep too much!)

Good luck & ENJOY!

Just Me

Just Me

I would be interested to know more about wearing the Nitrile ring and then a metal one with it. I guess I understand ‘stacking,’ where one where one ring side by side next to another one, but is this where the metal ring is worn ‘over’ the Nitrile ring?

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