While cruising the internet the other day I stumbled upon a site discussing cock rings. Two of the questions posted asked about how long a cockring should be worn. The responses gave completely contradictory information! (Therefore we won't cite the website here.) We thought we should clear the air a bit.
Here are the questions:
Are cock rings worn daily or permanently?
Yes definitely. You can wear a ring permanently, in the same way as a ring on your finger. My partner loves it.
How long can you leave cock ring on?
You must leave it on for a minimum of four hours or rashes will occur
Rashes? Really? (Word of advice though: skip the chrome plated C rings or you could get a rash or even worse, a staph infection.)
So how long CAN you keep a cockring on?
I wear a black Nitrile cock ring all the time. In that regard, it is like answer #1 above: "You can wear a ring permanently, in the same way as a ring on your finger." It has a bit of give to it so when I have those hot and horny dreams at night it expands along with my hardening cock. I do not wear one of my metal penis rings to sleep because when I get a nocturnal hard-on my dick doesn't get the release it wants and so can be straining against the cock ring for great lengths of time. That is one area of concern for experts. When you wear a rigid ring for a long time you can damage veins in your penis. (Remember that the point of a cock ring is to restrict blood flow in your penis so you are larger and thicker. This is the job it is meant to do.) When you are awake you do something about your hard-on! When you are asleep you are completely unaware that it is even happening.
We do have a customer who told me that he wakes up every time he has a nocturnal erection and then 'rubs one out'! Why waste a good boner?!
Before I hop in the shower in the morning, I pick out the cock ring I am going to wear. I put it on in the shower. I like to do it then because my cock and balls are hot and hanging low so it's easier to slip into my gear. The cock ring I select reflects my mood that day.
A customer recently shared that his wife picks his cock ring out every day. Depending on what she chooses, he knows what he's in for that night when he gets home from work! (Now THAT is setting clear expectations!)
I love the variety--some days I feel like a lightweight aluminum Surge (see the center guy below) and on other days I feel like stacking up a couple of rings (like the guy on the right: two Titan .2's surrounding a Strut ring).
The more you wear your cock rings, the more you begin to understand what fits your physiology best. You may discover that you like the 'nothing there' feel of the aluminum rings or the heavy weighted comfort of an Omega. You may love the Fury but discover that it doesn't feel great under tight jeans. (Sometimes there can be too much of a good thing!) Whatever you choose, rock it, enjoy it, wear it with pride and enjoy the better sex it brings your way!
(And take it off before you go to sleep!)
gear essentials…Sex is Better here! ENJOY!
WHERE TO FIND IT:
- Nitrile Cock Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/cockrings/products/mega-nitrile-cock-rings
- Quarter Screw Blue Anodized C Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/cockrings/products/quarter-screw-anodized-cock-ring
- Strut Cock Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/cockrings/products/strut
- Surge Cock Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/cockrings/products/surge
- Titan .2 Cock Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/cockrings/products/titan
- Quarter Screw Glans Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/glans-rings/products/glans-ring-quarter-screw-aluminum
- Surge Head Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/glans-rings/products/glans-ring-surge-aluminum
- Titan .4 Glans Ring: http://gearessentials.com/collections/glans-rings/products/glans-ring-titan-4-stainless-steel
(Photo 1 re-blogged from Tumblr. Photo 2 by David Lee. http://www.davidaleephotography.com/)
Comments
17 comments
Jay
Mike: Wow! This is awesome—thank you for your comments. We often hear from maturing men that sexual activity dwindles with age. You are proof that it doesn’t have to. A cock ring is a great way to keep strength and performance.
You are right—getting the size correct is very important. I wear a cockring 24/7 myself and feel naked without it.
I’m curious about your steel insert. I love urethral play because of the stimulation of all those sensitive nerve-endings inside the piss-slit. How do you keep it in? Any tips for the rest of us on masturbating with a sound?
Thanks, Mike! ENJOY!
Mike Williams
I am 75, still very sexual and a frequent masturbator. I regularly wear a stainless cock ring around cock and balls together with a 10mm hollow stainless steel insert inside the full length of my cock. This combination is pleasant and erotic to wear, I can urinate through the insert without any problem, I regularly masturbate with this steelwork in place and have sometimes slept while wearing it. The key to success here is, of course, to ensure that the equipment you use is of the right size. I made a dummy cock ring out of a piece of annealed copper rod which I could adjust until I got it right. The insert is not so critical because your urethra is pretty flexible of course. All in all this is a pleasant way to enjoy your genitals and I would certainly recommend it.
Mike Williams
I’m posting this because I’ve read an awful lot of twaddle re wearing cock rings. I frequently wear a thick stainless steel cockring around both cock and balls, not because it has any beneficial effects but because I like the way it feels. I can wear it all day with no effects other than pleasurable. The vital thing is to get one the right size. I achieved this by making a temporary ring out of annealed (soft) thick copper rod (I used 8mm dia) which I bent into a circle (overlap it and smooth the cut ends) and adjusted by further bending until it was right and then bought a steel cock ring that size. Simple and it works. By the way, you anneal copper by heating it very hot and allowing it to cool. Makes it temporarily soft and easy to bend – it then age hardens (apologies to all you engineers).
Kirby Lester
I have been wearing a 1" thick heavy stainless cock ring for TEN years straight, 24/7. Fit and type do make a huge difference in comfort and how long you can wear it. For long driving trips, I take mine off and put it in a velvet pouch. I’ve even gone through courthouse metal detectors with this baby on. And no, it doesn’t set them off. LOL. Airport scanners, Hmmm…yeah, that’s a different story. Probably want to take your metal cock ring off when flying the friendly skies. On a personal note, I have a smaller than average package, and damn, the heavy ring feels Soooooo awesome when I’m wearing it. The wife likes it!
I started out with 2 1/8" (54mm) narrow solid stainless and rainbow titanium rings that had squared edges. Those were just a tad too big and tended to fall off my unit. Yeah. In public that can be a bit embarrassing!!! I then upgraded to a 2" heavy surgical stainless ring with a nice rounded comfort edge. To sum up, the skinny ones tend to pinch and cause discomfort even when stacked. Avoid the cheap nickel or chrome PLATED rings. The finish will wear off from the brass core and will turn your dick green. Seriously. Don’t wear those. Avoid wearing silicone or rubber cock rings for prolonged periods. Leather cock rings feel nice too, but they don’t have quite the same visual impact like a gleaming stainless ring.
ry
Hi again I for got to say this also in my post before it you are wondering that I shave all my pubic hair all off smooth ( and since I only have very little body hair I have hole body of what little body hair I do have my butt and back are natch. smooth though ) so since I am smooth shaven pubs no hair for cock ring to pull on o and wearing cock ring being fully shaved smooth the sensation is amazing
ry
Hi all I am a 43 year old guy and I where cock rings around the base of my cock and behind my balls( like first put balls though ring then my cock sure you understand ) I have a cock ring ( metal ) what is 2’ 3/4 a little snug so I tend to wear it just for a few hours and also have a titanium like ring this one is more flat round and is 2’ between a 1/8 and 7/8 and I also have a rubber ring that is 1’ 7/8. now the round but flat cock ring have wore of and on also o the rubber ring I only wear if I have to go someplace that picks up metal ( even the one I have is titanium don’t know if will detect it so still wear rubber ring for those times but lately I decided to just wear the round but flat titanium cock ring more all the time 24/7 instead of just for a few days at a time it always fells good wearing it and so now I just decided to not take it off just only when I put rubber one on like said before then when not need rubber ring back on the titanium ring I have not hade any problems having it on 24/7 now even when I use to just wear it a few days at a time . Might seem weird but fells way more better wearing a cock ring 24/7 o forgot to say it been 3 months 24/7 now and I plan to wear the cock ring for life ( if that does not sound weird ) and I can get hard awake and not awake just fine
Jay
Hey, Dan—thanks for your comments. It is great to hear from someone who wears his rings 24/7. I’m glad your doctor saw them. When you mentioned that you are ‘permanently dark purple’ that causes a lot of concern—but if she thinks it is okay, go for it. If you hadn’t seen your doctor I would highly recommend taking them all off to give your penis a break. The concern is that you may burst a blood vessel and do permanent damage to your penis. We do NOT want that!
Nett
I start wearing a stainless steel cock ring at home even to gym for my cycling class, it is comfortable n I feel great when getting horny n hard on
Dan
Hey, im 28 and have been wearing for cock rings perminetly for around 9 months with no problem, one is a 35mm ring around my shatft and balls, I have a 35 mm steele wieght aroung my balls, a 30mm steele ring at the base of my shaft and a 27 mm ring around my cock head, ive always got a semi on and it sounds like im smuggling coins haha but I love it, when in the public toilets is a thrill, when men catch a look at my swallon meat it excites me, I also recently had to go the doctors, she wasent impressed by my swallon semi on but that also excited me!! my balls, cock head, and shaft are a perminently dark purple now, and the cock ring around my shaft is there for life now, even If i wanted to take it off its too tight, the only one I can remove is the weight around my balls, im too swallon to remove any of the others now,
stephen
Hi
I have also read about the dangers of wearing metal cock ring 24/7, but I have been wearing mine 24/7 for a month with no real side effects, but cock may turn slightly red when erect, but never purple, and blood flow seems fine day and night, I think selecting the best size is very important I started with 40mm ring but that was to tight now I wear 42.5mm and 45mm very comfortable.
And never been close to not being able to remove ring even if erect just remove one ball at a time and then slide over shaft.
Hope this assures people don’t believe all you read and use common sense.
jay
Martyn—that is AWESOME! Congrats on enjoying your cockring. It is a great experience.
Stubble can be a problem—but long pubes can also get caught and pulled (that is no fun either). I find that trimming my pubes works well. I also shave my shaft and balls and have not had any problems with irritation when the stubble grows back.
One recommendation: moisturize like crazy! This will keep your skin smooth.
Thanks for the feedback!
Jay
Martyn
Started wearing a steel cock ring around my cock and balls this year. I am a 66 year old bottom no guy.
Managed 12 hours max so far, want to make it a permanent thing.
I get sugared to be hair free and find it tugs on the stubble sometimes.
I enjoy the feel of it and sometimes wesr a tighter, not restricting, ring on the shaft.
Heman
I wore metal cock ring from last 8 months days and nights. I do not have any issues. I found my penis get erected in night but that feels pleasurable. Size of my penis has increased dramatically and bulge in my jeans creats envy around.
Gordon
I wear a1’3/4 cock ball ring 24/7 some times i wear with it a ball weight 1’1/2 with some good lube and no underwear , it makes my day , and a nice buldge
dc
I wear a 2" aluminum ring all day and night. No problems. Had it on now for almost 5 months.
pops
I wear a 2in cock ball ring 24-7 no side affects , gives me a nice buldge ,when I urinate I pull the whole package out ,men have seen my package doing that what a rush
Billy belcher
Hi
Billy here
I am 23 years old blond hair blue eyes student muscular build
5 ft 11 in tall 175 pounds an toned.
I wear a titanium cock ring all the time day an night it is around my
Balls a cock to all the way.
I have not had any side effect from wearing it yet .
it has made my balls a some bigger like wearin a ball stretcher.
Billy