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I didn't realize how precocious I was. Even before puberty I had figured out that masturbating felt good. I would have this wonderfully warm sensation of orgasm flow through my body and would just keep going. I experienced wave after wave of pleasure. Then puberty hit. The first time I ejaculated I was sure I had broken something. In my little fundamentalist mind I decided that this was God's punishment on me for experiencing self-pleasure.

I also realized that I couldn't keep going. Once I had an orgasm my dick was way too sensitive to continue jacking off. I totally felt cheated (and I still do.)

Once puberty hits, men need a 'refractory' period. It's not the same for women--they can keep going and going, experiencing wave after wave of orgasm. The same is not true for men. A refractory period can last anywhere from a few minutes to days depending on the man.  

 

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It's all basic science. After men ejaculate, the nervous system pushes for the body to calm down by releasing neurotransmitters. These cause the muscles in his cock to contract resulting in a lost woody. In addition, if your man starts to snore after cumming, this is the reason why! Serotonin and Oxytocin are released resulting in the brain basically shutting off. 

In addition, Dopamine, one of the hormones that makes us happy, is secreted when we are horned up. After cumming, the body reduces its production which results in refractory. Concurrently Serotonin and Prolactin production is increased. This also counteracts further arousal and penile activity. If you bounce back quickly, it is likely that you have low levels of Prolactin.

Many scientists believe that orgasm is not the same as cumming. If you have ever edged, you have likely experienced multiple orgasm. The refractory period only comes into play when you have cum.

 

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Another interesting consideration is that the refractory period for cumming after masturbation is far less than when having sex with another person. The amount of Prolactin your body releases can be as much as 400 percent greater after having intercourse vs. just jacking off. When Prolactin is released the production of Testosterone--which is what makes you crave sex--is suppressed as well.

 

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How long will it before before you can get a boner again? Frankly, it depends on age. Teenage boys can be back at in a matter of minutes. By 30 it will take the average man 30 minutes or more to shoot another load. By 50, it may be down to 24 hours before he can go at it again. Of course there are other factors including how turned on you are, if alcohol is involved (that shuts you down faster), comfort level, emotional strength of the relationship, amount of sexual desire, medications and how turned on you are. In addition, every man is uniquely wired. 

 

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All men are basically dealt the same hand in the game of life. If he finishes first, it can be a bummer (so men should focus on making sure their partners are experiencing pleasure so the interactions are balanced). Even if he blows first, encourage him to touch with fingers and tongue, use some toys and continue to stimulate until you reach orgasm as well.

You can't really control refractory time. It is what it is. However, if he is really aroused and excited he may surprise you. This is why it pays to spice up your sex life with toys, new and unique locations, etc.

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(Photos re-blogged from Tumblr.)

Written by Jay — December 18, 2015

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