How to put on ball stretchers


A lot of men tell me they are interested in ball stretchers but the concept of screwing them on their tender nads is daunting. 

I completely understand. I remember my first time--it did not come naturally at all but I quickly figured it out. Now I now can almost put one on in my sleep. 

Putting a ball weight on may feel a bit like trying to write with the wrong hand until you get the hang of it. When I first started wearing one I thought I would never wear it on regular basis--it was such a pain to put on. Now I cannot imagine life without it.

Here's what a ball weight looks like. (You can see why it might be intimidating.)


How to put on a split ring ball stretcher - the two halves


I think it's a good idea to start with the 8 ounce (1/2” bandwidth, gear essentials narrowest band width). Danny had never worn a ball weight before so we started with this size. However, he certainly had the ball 'drop' to wear far more - and he rose to that challenge!

In doing ball stretcher fittings I have found that the 8 ounce weight is by far the easiest size to learn with. It's a cock and ball gear basic - not only is it the easiest to master, but you'll always find a use for it. If you're like me, this may become your default weight for daily wear. Or you might be like the customer who e-mailed earlier today; he likes to wear it as a cockring. I love the gentle tug and twist on my balls and it doesn’t give me ball fatigue after a long day wearing it. It's also a great size to help you move up to the next larger ball stretcher. When I went from the 16 ounce to the 24 ounce ball weight, I started the process by sliding the 8 ounce weight on top of my already secured 16 ounce. It can be hard to get your balls to fit into a single 24 ounce unit; however, getting the two separate weights on is much easier. This has proven to be a great way to grow to the next level.

Here's Danny in his 8 ounce ball weight. [He is also wearing a Fury cockring and Titan .4 glans ring (more about those later).]


How to put on ball stretchers - wearing an 8 Ounce Ball Weight


Danny is triple-ringed. This gives an amazing sensation on your junque. The Fury cockring keeps your prick pumped, the Titan glans ring keep your head bigger and your ball weight enhances the sensations and delays orgasms.

But back to the ball weights. I have found that if you are new to ball weights, the best time to put it on is immediately after getting out of the shower. You are warm and your balls have dropped about as far as they will go at that point. (Please don't wear it IN the shower though--the ‘male nub’ on the inside could rust. If you do want to swim or bathe with it on, coat it with fingernail polish.)

Lie down on your bed or on a couch with your head slightly inclined so you can see your genitals. Place the side of the ball weight with the Allen screw on your right side if you are right-handed (left side if you are left-handed). The screw should be on the side of your dominant hand. Tighten the screw enough to keep the two halves together but swing it wide open. You are going to use this as a hinge point. Place one half of the ball weight under your balls. The top half is wide open. With your less dominant hand, tug on your balls and pull them away from your body. If you have a lot of ball sack, twist slightly to narrow them up. The goal is to get them INTO the ball weight.

With your dominant hand, swing the open half of the ball weight over your balls and line up the male and female parts together. It should still be loose at this point. Your balls should be through the weight--but probably still 'slopping' over and just waiting to be pinched. Tighten the Allen screw a bit more--so the two halves don't slip apart. Now that the two halves are loosely together, tug on your balls again and use a finger to sweep extra skin out of the joint--squeeze the two halves together firmly with your other hand. NOW screw it all the way shut.

Some guys have told me that they put a lotion on their balls first. I have tried this but found that my balls get too slippery for me to handle effectively. I also worry about my ball weights sliding off in the heat of the day. (It has happened! And it did not feel good.)


How to put on ball stretchers - Adding an Omega Split Ring


Here I'm putting an Omega Split Ring on top of Danny's 8 ounce ball stretcher. This is a great way to add more weight - even if you don't think there is room. Because of the Omega's round shape, it fits perfectly where a squared weight wouldn't. Our 'junque' gets wider as it gets closer to our body so the wider interior diameter of the Omega (1-3/4 or 1 7/8") fits really well on top of the regular ball weight--even if you don't have enough drop in your ball sac to fit an additional ball weight. In addition, your normal ball weight keeps everything from slipping off.

The Omega split is easy to add too. Completely separate the two halves. Place the receiving end on top of the ball weight towards your body. Then slide the end with the screw into place. Do a quick sweep to make sure you don't have any tender ball sac skin in the joints and then start screwing it together. I find it helpful to hold it together tightly while you're screwing so you don't catch any skin.

A lot of men write saying that they want to start out with the largest ball stretcher - but unless you're well-gifted in the ball sac department you will have to work up to that. A great way to get a bigger stretch on your balls is by stacking ball weights. As mentioned above, it's easier to put on several weights rather than just one large one because you have to fit your ball sack into one large tunnel instead of several thinner ones. (This is how I have been able to add weight.) 

How to put on ball stretchers - Adding an Omega Split Ring


But why Wear a Ball Stretcher?

  1. So why wear them at all?  They feel awesome as they tug your scrotum and stretch out your ball sac. 
  2. It also prevents your balls from retracting upwards when you reach orgasm--this prolongs it and increases the intensity. 
  3. Many men report that they have more cum when wearing a ball stretcher.
  4. In Tantric practice it is recommended that you stretch your balls manually (or use your ball weight) for several minutes a day for better sexual health and well-being.
  5. Sexual partners often like the rhythm of the weight banging against them--another erogenous touch at a time when every nerve ending is hyper sensitive.
  6. When you have one (or more) on, your balls become more sensitive to every touch, stroke, tickle, lick, nipple or slap.  You may find yourself whimpering--just a little bit!
  7. Lastly, when you take it off, you experience another sort of sensation--hop in the shower, soap up and start playing and tugging.  You may find there is another bullet in your gun!

And there is the complete package! It looks amazing, doesn't it? (And it feels even better.) It doesn't restrict your freedom or movement. In fact, it enhances your pleasure (in every way) throughout your day.


How to put on ball stretchers - the total package!


Now let's talk about what else Danny is wearing.


Fury Cockring

Danny is wearing the Fury cockring. It's one of gear essentials largest rings and definitely makes a statement. It pumps up and supports Danny's prick for his best look. A cock ring makes your dick thicker (whether flaccid or erect), harder and more sensitive. 

The Fury cockring is available in brushed or mirrored finish and features the profile of a double ring. It's gear essentials second heaviest cock ring (approximately weighing in at a sturdy 10 ounces / 286 grams and a broad .9 inches / 23 mm wide) yet is extremely sexy and comfortable to wear. It pumps up your package and your dick for furious (and very satisfying) action. Both men and women have told us they love the feel of this ring when they are being fucked. The heavy metal provides extra force and stimulation


Titan Glans Ring 

Danny's also wearing the Titan .4 glans ring. Danny's got a nice long dick and his head ring shows off his potential by pulling his flaccid dick down. It feels amazing naked or under loose clothing. You definitely get second looks when you wear this ring. 

The Titan Head Ring feels amazing, looks great and really shows off Danny's dickhead. Even when flaccid the head of his dick is bigger than usual (as you can see from the picture above). This is especially true when it's paired with a penis ring. It gets even bigger when hard. Your dick is already chubbed up from your cock ring (remember, blood flows in and the penis ring keeps it all from rushing right out again) but the glans ring makes your dick head even bigger than normal!  It is a totally hot look and feel. 

You'll enjoy the sensation of this heavier solid stainless steel head ring when just walking and moving through your day. Many refer to the sensation as the "mini hand job" in your pants - and it is.

It's easy to get a ball weight on once you're used to it. And you'll enjoy the benefits so much you'll wonder why you waited so long!

gear essentials…Sex is Better here! ENJOY!


(Photos by Simeon Den Photography. See more of Simeon's work at


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